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Secondly,
in recent years there have emerged parishes that are comprised almost
entirely of converts to the Orthodox Faith. These parishes aren’t house
blend either. They are another important specialty. They aren’t for
everyone, but they do have an extremely significant role in the full
scope of Orthodox life in North America.
But now, thirdly, there are a growing number of Orthodox parishes
emerging on North American soil which began as ethnic parishes, or at
least sprouted from an ethnic base, but which have quite intentionally
sought to add significant percentages of converts to the makeup of the
parish. The number of this blend of parishes is growing rapidly. This
last model is what I would call the “house blend.” Conceivably some in
ethnic or convert parishes may feel these don’t “taste” very good. “Too
strong or too weak,” some may say. And we who are in these house blend
parishes don’t mind their feeling that way, but we ourselves really do
like the taste.
GETTING DOWN TO TERMS
This blend illustration may be better understood if we get down to cases
with three terms: ethnic, cradle, and convert.
Ethnic churches are simply a common strand of the fabric of the American
experience. And they are by no means unique to Orthodoxy. The Episcopal
Church, for example, was and is an ethnic church; its ethnicity just
happens to be English. But the ethnic experience goes far beyond the
Episcopalians. There are Irish Catholics, Italian Catholics, and Polish
Catholics. And among the Protestants, there are German Lutherans,
Swedish Lutherans, and Danish Lutherans, to name a few. And there are
Scottish Presbyterians. My dad grew up in a Low German-speaking
Mennonite church. My wife grew up in a Swedish Mission Covenant Church.
And I have only begun to name the churches that were or still are, in
some measure, ethnic.
One memorable “ethnic experience” I treasure goes back to my
basketball-playing days for the San Jose Covenant Church, a church
Swedish in background. I was the center, so the team roster read like
this: Peterson, Pederson, Braun, Swanson, Johnson. I’d say that
suggested an ethnic background! It seems to me North Americans don’t
look disparagingly at churches with a Western European ethnic
background. But woe to those from Eastern Europe or the Middle East!
They’re foreigners. They are judged so severely for what goes completely
unnoticed elsewhere.
Ethnic churches are not de facto bad churches, and their ethnicity
should never be a criterion for judging them. Frankly, I’m tired of
people casting the term “ethnic” about with respect to Orthodox
churches, as if “ethnic” were some nasty, but easily curable (all you
have to do is become like us) disease. There are even ugly aspersions
flung about with respect to whether “ethnics” are truly Christians. That
is nothing more than American fundamentalist nonsense - as if you’ve got
to speak English and be at least a fourth-generation Heinz 57 variety to
be a genuine Christian in America. (American fundamentalism itself is a
branch of American ethnic religion!)
Of course many problems must be addressed in ethnic churches as they
take root in a new homeland. That takes time. And if they are trying to
use the Kingdom of God to preserve and perpetuate an ethnic heritage,
that is totally inappropriate. The Kingdom of God has its own ethnic
identity, namely heaven! But just because a church’s services are in
Arabic or Greek or Slavonic doesn’t mean they are perpetuating a
heritage at the expense of the Faith. And for goodness’ sake, are there
not literally thousands of American “ethnic” churches that are
confessedly committed to preserving and perpetuating the “American way
of life” and/or “the American dream”?
“Cradle” is the second term we need to work with. Of course there are
cradle Orthodox. Strange, isn’t it? I’ve never heard the word “cradle”
used of anyone but Orthodox, and so often it is used as if it were a
malady. Really, all we mean by “cradle Orthodox” is people who have been
Orthodox since they were in the cradle. And what’s wrong with that?
Aren’t there cradle Baptists? Cradle Pentecostals? Cradle evangelicals?
Cradle charismatics? Even those of us who are converts to Orthodoxy are
often prone to use the expression “cradle Orthodox” to mean, “not as
committed as we are.” Frankly, that attitude reveals a sinister pride
which should have no place among a people whose daily prayer is. “Lord
Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me, a sinner.”
In fact, it may be quite a compliment for people to be called “cradle
Orthodox,” At least it testifies to the fact that they’ve stuck to the
Faith of their Fathers - quite a feat these days, when people change (or
drop) their faith, their denominations, and their religions, with the
ease and aplomb with which they switch automobiles.
Still, in all fairness, it must be admitted there are cradle Orthodox
who have virtually no clue about their faith, They’ve just bumped along
over the years going along with the program, as it were, but never
making a true commitment to Christ or the Church. Perhaps the tie was
ethnic heritage. Perhaps it was family. Maybe it was just a felt need
for church. Whatever it was, it was never enough to press them into
digging into the heart of their Faith. This problem is not unique to
Orthodox Christians. All churches, should they survive twenty years, are
going to encounter that troublesome predicament. That doesn’t excuse
lack of commitment, but it does make it understandable.
Finally, we need to look at the word “convert.” Being a convert myself.
I must say I had a hard time with the word. After all, I was a Christian
before! But I’ve come to deal with the reality that becoming Orthodox is
a type of conversion. For some of us, it was quite a radical departure
from where we once found ourselves to enter into a Church that is
historic, liturgical, and sacramental. And sometimes the cradle Orthodox
don’t realize how difficult this conversion can be. Some cannot grasp
the inner wrenching we went through to make the change. There are even
some who are at a loss to understand why we find Orthodoxy such a
treasure. Indeed, converts are sometimes looked down on as ignorant
newcomers to be held in suspicion.
Where an atmosphere of suspicion and belittling tends to peak is in
those environments where cradle and convert are effectively separated
from one another. And, conversely, those issues fade when they are
together. At my parish, the proportion is 55% convert and 45% cradle.
(I’m probably the only one in the parish aware of those figures.) But we
don’t think of each other as cradle or convert. We think of each other
as brothers and sisters in Christ: we see each other as Orthodox
Christians, and members of the same Body. I must admit that when I’m
outside my own parish and meet some cradle Orthodox, I occasionally
still feel the suspicion so strongly, I’m sure they feel the same coming
from me. But in my “house blend” parish, we don’t have that problem.
Further, without for a moment suggesting that the all-cradle or
all-convert parishes aren’t good models, we would insist that our model,
the “house blend,” is a wonderful model. It has some distinct
advantages, and in the long haul it will appeal to the greatest number
of people - not because it’s inherently the best, but because of
people’s tastes. Take a look at just four appealing attributes of the
house blend.
ADVANTAGES OF THE HOUSE BLEND
1) Balanced Christian Living
Balance is a quality that is often hard to come by in Christian living.
In the house blend church, every cradle believer and every convert has
some degree of influence on the whole - perhaps far more than when
everyone has the same background. Cradle Orthodox are challenged by the
zeal of the converts, but the converts are balanced by the experience
and history of the cradles. I see this dramatically experienced during
the Lenten fast. The cradles have been involved in the fast from their
youth. Some have kept it well; some hardly at all. But they have an
experience of it, and they know what it should be. It’s in their memory
banks (and their cookbooks!). We converts, on the other hand, tend to
start the long-distance race of Lent sprinting. That’s not the way to
finish such a grueling race! I see the interacting balance working, and
all are encouraged. More run the race to the end. But balance is a
two-way Street, and cradle Orthodox are balanced by converts too. Most
people, for example, who grow up in an Orthodox Church simply never
think of sharing their faith with anyone else - even of inviting someone
to attend their church with them. Most converts, however, are very
comfortable with that and have done so much of their lives. With a
mixture of cradle and converts, all are encouraged.
2) Modeling
There is great value in “doing things as second nature,” as it were.
Think of how much all of us have learned from our parents, our churches
and our schools - ways we speak, things we do, how we drive our cars or
decorate our Christmas trees, and how we meet and greet one another. In
the “blend” church, so much is learned by converts, who quickly come to
imitate those who grew up in the Faith.
Take the matter of “church etiquette” - things like how we enter the
church, how we relate to icons and respond in the Liturgy, how we bake
the Holy Bread, how we talk to a priest or greet a bishop - just to name
a few items. As converts come to do these things the way they are
modeled for them by the cradles, the latter often come to a new
appreciation of why they themselves do these things. A reciprocity
occurs here, and it’s healthy - to say nothing of saving time (and
sometimes a good deal of embarrassment!).
3) Contagious Commitment
Converts, just by their presence, tend to challenge all the people of a
parish or mission to greater commitment to Christ and His Church. The
fact of being a convert often implies a strong commitment to Christ.
All, cradle or convert, who are committed to Christ, are a challenge
to others to “commend ourselves and each other and all our life unto
Christ our God.”
But there’s also the “little” matters commitment that are affected in
the blend. Getting to church on time, tithing (or least very significant
giving), participation in the services, attendance at Vesper Matins,
feast days - all are affected. A leavening occurs in the whole lump.
Some cradle Orthodox may have developed some careless habits in these
matters. The blend encourages all,
4.) Integration
One final advantage of the blend model which is not to be overlooked is
the ease with which we converts can be melded into the whole of the
Orthodox Church - in our deaneries, our regions, our archdioceses, and
the Orthodox world at large. The integration into all of these becomes
normal and natural rather than traumatic.
The “suspicion factor” of converts is greatly reduced. The shock of the
“ethnicity factor” is also diminished. Those gulfs have already been
crossed, or at least addressed. And the “who-taught-the-converts factor”
doesn’t even get consideration. The mix in the parish carries over into
the larger Church to such an extent that acceptance of both cradle and
convert is much more easily accomplished by all. Genuine Christian
tolerance of one another and our respective backgrounds finds good soil
for growth, because the cultivation has already begun.
These are not the only advantages, but they stand out as examples of how
the house blend model can appeal to the many. Of course it is not the
only model. It would be inaccurate and inappropriate even to say it is
the best. No model is the best. All have their place, and all are
needed. But the house blend must not be overlooked, and we will see more
and more of these parishes as the distance in time and culture from
homelands grows, converts increase in numbers, and Orthodox life grows
stronger on this continent.
The Very Rev. Jon Braun is pastor of Saint Anthony Orthodox Church
in San Diego, California.
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