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Who can we
Trust?
Like familiar theme notes surging
through a symphony, one thought reappears throughout the book of Psalms,
and indeed everywhere in the Holy Bible. That theme is - put not your
trust in men (women), but rely only in God, for He will never fail you
or forsake you. How painful a lesson it is, yet each person must learn
by experience that no human is to be trusted unconditionally.
God made man a complex being, full of
potential, both good and evil. Because he has freedom of choice, his
decision is his alone to make. Man (woman) is exciting, often
contradictory, and impossible to anticipate. |
The difficulty we have in
relations to other people lies in the fact that mankind is neither
totally trustworthy, nor altogether unreliable. We must learn to trust
others conditionally, knowing that they are capable of rejecting the
"right" and choosing the "wrong," and under given
conditions they will do so.
The people I write of are not mankind
in general, not the stranger or your neighbor, but the one you see
across the table at dinner. What parent can say he truly knows his
child? No doubt you know most of the patterns that shape his life
decisions; however, because he is human, he can do the unpredictable.
You never know when a person will
reject you, because he himself doesn’t know how he will respond to
temptation. The most we can do is to detect the other person’s
weaknesses, in order to anticipate the decisions he will make and the
temptations that will overwhelm him.
Nearly all of us let our weakness show
through. Some people, for example, are born quitters, who start each new
project with gusto only to fall away at the first annoyance. Others are
vain, and seek constant adulation. When they no longer hear their name
on our lips, they go elsewhere for praise. Some begin humbly, but give
them one taste of glory and they are forever intoxicated with
self-esteem.
What then can we hold fast to
throughout our life? Whom dare we trust unconditionally, when all others
fall away? The Holy Church, the Bible, the writings of the saints and
even the currency of this nation never tire of proclaiming the one truth
basic to our soul’s happiness: "IN GOD ALONE DO WE TRUST."
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